The singer says the number keeps climbing. Ray J, the 45-year-old “Sexy Can I” artist, now claims he has slept with 12,500 different women. This marks a significant increase from his November 2025 claim of 10,000 partners.
The controversial singer body count milestone came during a recent interview. Ray J explained that he celebrated when he crossed the 10,000 mark. He threw a party at a Miami club called Booby Trap, complete with confetti and hundreds of attendees. About 400 to 500 women he had been with showed up to support the moment.
Interviewers questioned whether the figures add up. If Ray J started at age 15, reaching 12,500 women would average roughly one and a half new partners per day for 30 consecutive years. The singer responded that touring changed the equation entirely. He claimed that while on tour, he could be with five to ten women in a single day.
Ray J clarified that these are distinct individuals, not total sexual encounters. The number refers to unique partners, not repeated experiences with the same person.
The singer made an even more startling claim. Ray J stated that some of his female friends have slept with 45,000 men in a single year. He insisted he was “not capping”, slang for not lying. The interviewers reacted with shock, with one joking that 30,000 partners would mean a person “should be dead.”
The singer attributed these extreme numbers to brothel environments. He suggested that working in such settings makes high partner counts possible in ways conventional lifestyles cannot match.
Fans have responded with disgust and concern. Many commenters questioned how anyone could reach such numbers without contracting multiple sexually transmitted infections. Others expressed pity, suggesting the claims point to deeper personal struggles.
One fan wrote, “That’s why his spirit in shambles.” Another commented, “He gets more embarrassing the more he speaks.” Some referenced his ongoing divorce from Princess Love, urging her to finalize the separation immediately. A parent even joked that Ray J has become their personal “D.A.R.E. program” to keep kids away from destructive lifestyles.
It remains unclear whether Ray J is being serious. The singer has embraced chaos as a branding tool in recent years, even suggesting that “crashing out” can be a viable business strategy. Whether he genuinely believes these numbers or simply knows how to generate headlines, the claims have succeeded at one thing: keeping his name in every conversation.
