Benny Blanco has simple advice for winning someone like Selena Gomez. The Grammy-winning producer appeared on the Today show on Sunday, September 13, where he opened up about his relationship with the six-time Emmy-nominated actress and revealed that kindness is his secret. When asked what his advice would be for someone trying to land a partner like Gomez, Blanco kept it plain: “Just be kind. I think that’s the main thing. Just be nice to people”.
The Benny Blanco Selena Gomez relationship has been one of Hollywood’s most unexpected love stories. The couple went public in December 2023 after years of friendship and collaboration, Blanco produced several of Gomez’s hits, including “Same Old Love,” “Kill Em with Kindness,” and “I Can’t Get Enough.” They got engaged in December 2024 and married in September 2025 at a star-studded ceremony in Montecito, California, with guests including Taylor Swift, Steve Martin, and Martin Short.
Blanco has been open about his affection for Gomez, telling Today that he tries to “just be a good person” and that their relationship works because they genuinely enjoy each other’s company. The couple recently collaborated on Gomez’s album I Said I Love You First, which Blanco executive produced. When asked earlier this year about his wife’s Emmy nomination for her role in Only Murders in the Building, Blanco said he was “so proud” and joked that he’s “just trying to keep up” with her.
